I put it in first and rock it a few times, and now i put it at the top of the stroke and kick.
Thanks for the suggestion though guys. That was the first topic in this forum I read, was the tricks everyone has for starting.
I think where i was going wrong was, i was getting to the top of the stroke, then kicked it until it clicked down once and kicked it from there. I had seen that on youtube, and let me tell you that is WRONG.
So a hearty thanks again to all of you fine kxriders for helping out this noob.