BDI, I agree with Hughes, you should do something special for your 10th anniversary, of course I'm sure that is your thought as well. Most women don't get it, or at least those that aren't associated with gear heads.
I just passed 28 years and all is good, she pretty much lets me do my thing and doesn't give me alot of grief. She gets everything together when its race time and makes sure we don't forget anything, I take her snowmobiling through the winter and she's happy. Her only complaint was she couldn't get the lawn mower out of the shed, I currently have 8 dirt bikes and not enough room to store them, so, I built her her own shed for the lawn mower and the other for the bikes and the rest of my junk.