I might be able to help here a bit. I have been riding my KX500 and my CRF450 back to back a few times (for the sake of comparison I am considering the CRF and the KXF as equivalents). They are definitely apples and oranges. First thing I noticed was noise. The 4-stroke is deafeningly loud, like riding thunder. The KX500 is pleasantly quiet by comparison. Power is no comparison, the KX500 has more everywhere, bottom, mid, top end, not even close. Traction is a different story, the 4-stroke just goes forward really quickly without a lot of fanfare, while the KX will spin and fishtail - This is the most noticable difference. The KX idles down to zero RPM, lugs nicely and can crawl through tricky sections. The 4-stoke coughs and stalls everywhere. I stalled 20 or more times the first ride on the 4-stroke. My KX500 is really comfy but the ergometrics of the new bike are fantastic, handling and turning are effortless. Weight is about the same but the 4-stroke seems heavier when putting it up on a stand. Kicking effort is about the same, except the KX500 starts first kick every time and 4-strokes take some learning. My first 4-stroke start was 20 kicks. The KX500 is great in whoops, but the 4-stroke beats it, gobling up any whoop you launch over. Maintenance on the 4-stroke is at least double (or tripple).
However, the 4-strokes are the future and the are very nice. You won't be dissapointed with the KXF450. I would be on one if my dealer was nicer. Hope this helps. Cam.